You are not alone with your questions and challenges. This is a place to find help, hope, comfort, and validation that your emotional struggles as a caregiver are important to your well-being.
Reflections from a wife’s heart to other women walking in the caregiver shoes, navigating the cancer journey with courage and faith.
This website offers hope, help, comfort, and encouragement to women whose husbands have cancer, and who find caregiver added to their role as wife, lover, mother, and friend.

A 33-year love affair culminating in a two-and-a-half year extraordinary test of courage and faith, found alive and thriving.

Find help navigating the cancer road, including information about palliative care, research, and support for caregivers.

Read reflections, encouragement, and insights from a caregiver’s journey, written while in the battle with my husband.
I am a fine artist. My oil and pastel paintings are rooted in personal experience but resonate with rhythms of change and memory titled “Seasons.” My work has exhibited widely throughout New England in solo and invitational shows, with work held in private collections across the United States, France and Switzerland.
My paintings are included in the Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center’s permanent art collection. Notably, my pastel, The Blue Lady, displayed in the Cancer Center, along with the story of why I painted her has served as a source of encouragement for patients and their families, underscoring the quiet power of art to comfort and inspire.
As an inspirational writer, my goal and principle for my Website, Cancer Tested Courage and Faith will possess the similar power of hope, help, comfort, and encouragement to women whose husbands have cancer, and they find caregiver added to their role as wife, lover, mother, friend. The content of Cancer Tested Courage and Faith is also rooted in personal experience and documented in the journal of walking with, caring for, supporting, honoring his one request, and loving him through his two-and-a-half year extraordinary fight against the beast, esophageal cancer.

I am deeply moved by your letter.
— A doctor who was a member of Werner’s palliative care team
As always a beautiful written article.
— A visitor from Scotland
“Your words of encouragement were outstanding. People need to hear and read that to make it through the day sometimes. It is hard enough to make it through the day today, with the beast. So when people like you come along with words of encouragement… that’s a real blessing.”
Your ability to put emotions into your writing is an important component of your skills.
It seems to come naturally.
You are not alone with your questions and challenges. Visitors will find help, hope, comfort, and validation that their emotional struggles as caregivers are important to their well-being.
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